I cant remember the title or the author, I stumbled upon it the other day and forgot to save it. Its driving me bonkers trying to find it.

All I can remember from what I'd started reading was that buffy and spike don't know each other, she was dancing at a club with some random when she noticed spike. they made heavy eye contact while they danced and got pleasured on the dancefloor by their random dance partners and then he mouths the word «come» and by the time she opens her eyes him and his dance partner are gone. 

she eventually sees him on the train or visa versa (can't quite remember) and end up going back to one of their apartments get freaky and he does the whole «come» command thing again. Then something happens and one of them leaves(i think). Then some stuff I can't remember happens and then he's all jealous and angry she went back out again even though they weren't together.

Hey DaniellaWidget,

It's 'Something Real' By dampersandspoons (now Grief Counseling on Sunnydale After Dark website). This particular story is still available on Nocturnal Light. By chapters and here's the complete story on a single page, in case you want to save it.

Summary: Buffy is a single woman empowered by her sexuality yet detached from human connection She's never had a real relationship, never slept with the same guy twice, and never had any intentions of doing either until she goes to a party in down town NY and meets a mystery man who changes everything. This is an angsty ride, so please read the A/N's on Chapter 1. (This is based on the film Lie With Me but with my own twists and turns.)

Hannora yessss omg you found it! That's why I had so much trouble finding it hahaha I keep forgetting dampersandspoons became Grief Counseling!

Absolute legend, thank you again! You saved me going out of my mind haha