Babysitting Whistler, vengeance put on Scoobies

Hi,
I just remembered a story I once read. I don't remember much but at the end Buffy and Spike were living in a house, had children and Whistler was babysitting them. Also Anya was a vengeance demon and made Xander to never have an orgasm again or for a long time. And at the end The Scoobies came to Buffy ask her for cancelling her wishes.
I know it's not much, but maybe someone recall this fic?
Thank you

With All My Heart by spikeslovebite Rated: NC-17

Summary:
Rated NC-17 for sexual content and adult situations. Post Chosen. Fed up with their lies and deceitful ways, Buffy has broken off from both her friends and the Council, but she doesn't know that they are still meddling in her life. She doesn't know they set up a slayer to pose as "Buffy" in Rome, nor does she know that Spike is back. She's living a quiet life mourning her lost Champion when the Powers-that-be decide her that her duty is not done. Completed 9/20/2005.

http://dark-solace.org/elysian/viewstory.php?sid=833

Yes, that's it Thank you