Spike makes Wes appologise for stealing Tara's doughnut.

This story was quite long in the 20 to 25 chapter range, I'm pretty sure I read it on fanfiction dot net years ago.

* Spike is part of the group, welcomed and considered a friend.

* Pretty sure it is actually Spuffy or at least that's direction the buffy/spike relationship is headed.

* I'm not sure when it's set timeline wise. Pretty sure Dawn and baby Conner are around though.

* One scene has Angels gang arive to help work out what the big bad is and everyone is at the Magicbox and there's doughnuts and the LA crew descend upon them and Wesley takes Tara's dounghnut without noticing, Tara would have let it go but Spike jumps to her defense and makes Wes apologise and give the doungnut back.

* A little while later, Angel gets all jealous at how comfy Buffy is with Spike especially when he sees her wipe powdered sugar from her jam dounghnut on spike pants.

* At some point Angel is remembering when he and Spike were vampires together and how spike wasn't exactly cruel like him and Darla were - he recalled when spike got into a brawl with a bunch of humans and when it was over they were all unconscious but alive, Angel disgusted at Spike not killing them went and killed them all to spikes disgust.

I remember this one, but can't think of the name at the moment. The evil trio had captured Halfrek, and she turned lots of nerds into frogs, and everyone played Monopoly with Halfrex and D'Hoffryn. I'm fairly certain it's on sinister-attraction.

The story with the frogs I think is Affinity by Ginmar, which you can find on AllAboutSpike, but I'm not sure if that's the same story that the OP is looking for.

Found thanks to the seeking_spike lj comm, the fic is Imitor Vita Pro Amor by Celeste and Debbie and can be found on sinister-attraction.

Link:

Imitor Vita Pro Amor by Celeste

http://www.sinister-attraction.net/attract.htm

Summary: Buffy tries to convince herself all she needs is Spike's friendship...co-written with Debbie