Hi,
I'm looking for stories set in season six where buffy comes clean about her and spike and they are happily together. Spike is handy, he helps dawn with her schoolwork and maybe even cooks and helps buffy with money. The three of them get along like a happy family, the scoobies ( or just some of the scoobies) however don't support them and keep throwing monkey wrenches their way. Tara and Anya either support spuffy or are uninvolved.

Thank you in advance I've been looking for these for a while

Some really good are Niamhs Origins stories and Enigmaticblues Collide. Origins are on this site, Collide is on Elysian field bot goggle Enigmaticblue and you can find her site.

Collide is also on Nocturnal Light

Awakenings by dreamweaver here at SR

Wizard Glass By Ripe Wicked Plum

http://www.ripewickedplum.com/sa/wizardglass.htm

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All of the fics/series below can be found either here or at the bloodshedverse.

One of the greatest series in all the Spuffy fandom, besides Origins which has already been mentioned, that fits your criteria perfectly is the Spike's Will be Done Series by TalesofSpike. This has several epic stories to it: Spike's Will be Done, True Colors, Ring of Fire, Fumbling Towards Ecstasy, and Angels and Demons.

In Death Love Prevails and it's sequel Courage Under Fire by yumimum.

All the Way and Then Some by Scarlet Ibis.

Learning to Fly by Spike_spetslayer.

And althougth this one is not exactly your criteria it is very close and an excellent fic, Drawn by Their Heart's Passion by Spikeskat.

And on this site is 'No Such Thing as Coincidences' by All4Spike and it's sequels.

http://spikeluver.com/SpuffyRealm/viewstory.php?sid=21920&warning=NC-17

TalesOfSpike also wrote In The Name Of Love at the Just Rewards site.
http://www.athenewolfe.com/justrewards/viewstory.php?sid=980