A lot of the fics are Spike chasing after Buffy. I really like the ones that have Buffy pursuing Spike, but those are much harder to find. Can anyone name some good Buffy-takes-charge fics?

My Life Closed Twice by Anaross - wonderful, wonderful story. I think she has at least one more where Buffy is the pursuer too, but I don't remember the title of that one.

My Prologue to Life, I Know You is all about Buffy pursuing season 2 Spike.
So You Think You Can Dance is a future fic where she has to chase him.
A lot of my season 6 fics are all about "Spike grows a pair" and "Buffy gets a clue" - so she always has to pursue him at some point. They're all pretty trite and boring though - and it's not like it takes him very long to come around...

Want, Take Have by Curly-Kitty
http://www.fanfiction.net/s/5105320/1/Want-Take-Have