I don't think I've ever read a fic where Spike doesn't change for Buffy unless she gets turned and I'd really like to.
So Basically I'd like fics where Buffy accepts Spikes vampiric nature - he doesn't have to be like 'grrr evil' [although that would also be nice ] but if he does temper his habits it's not because she asked him too.
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It All Started with Sex" by Kari Mouke, on the WayBack machine

http://web.archive.org/web/20051210021422/www.thetwojanes.com/KariIASWS.htm

The only one that comes to mine is the MEET THE PRATT series by VERITY WATSON. She never tells him to stop killing but eventually he does change a bit for her.

Meet the Pratts---by: Verity Watson

http://www.bloodshedverse.com/stories.php?go=chapters&no=7067


Finding William Pratt ----by Verity Watson

http://www.bloodshedverse.com/stories.php?go=chapters&no=7749


Being William Pratt ----by Verity Watson

http://www.bloodshedverse.com/stories.php?go=chapters&no=8396

In Barb C fics Buffy kinda ok with Spike's nature.

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