Sounds like "Divinity" ; one of my favorites, ever!! Absolutely amazing piece!
Divinity by Sass AngelSUMMARY:
Take one Slayer with some serious guilt issues, stir in one unsouled vampire with some significant memory lapses and what do you get? A post-grave fic like you haven't seen before.I'm pretty sure it's this one you're looking for...
It's not post NFA, this one takes off while/after Spike's in Africa - His painful memory of Buffy 's completely removed, and he starts a new life with a group of people with special gifts and has a vampire girlfriend named Tasha. Spike has a tattoo on his back which was a result of the memories removal spell he received in africa. It's a tattoo of a name of the person he doesn't remember knowing, "Buffy Summers"