

Date: 01/27/2006 - 04:23 pm Title: CH 11
AWWW...their house together...what will they say to each other? God please update soon I cant wait!!:)

Date: 01/27/2006 - 04:16 pm Title: CH 11
I just LOVE this, its so full of passion and UST....

Date: 01/27/2006 - 03:51 pm Title: CH 11
You stopped there!?! I need more!!hehehe
this fic is amazing, one of the best... and i mean it!!! can't wait for more!

Date: 01/27/2006 - 01:59 pm Title: CH 11
Okay I actually kinda enjoy this story. I say kinda cause the part of me that is reeling from Buffy's choices in life. This is one of those stories where I hope the crap hits the fan for her, yet you hope it all works out.. (although maybe only cause Spike wants it that way.)
I have the hardest time seeing how complacent Giles is in all of this. As a parent (and I am one) I'd be absolutely enraged with her. The arguement could be that he loved Buffy before she was Spike's wife and also as Joyce's daughter. That however would make me feel more betrayed as a parent. What I'm hoping to see is Spike's big sister come into the scene. Cause no matter how everyone quietly supports Spike or how guilty Buffy feels. Someone needs to set the spoiled brat straight. Imagine how you would feel in Spike's shoes if your spouse were living with someone else for years and everyone knew and were accepting. Someone has got to voice his rage and indignation even if it is resolved in the end. Otherwise its just this great big sub-conscience nod that we all feel Buffy's feelings are more important than his. And that just sucks.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 01:27 pm Title: CH 11
Ho ho, they both stopped at the house they lived in when they were together. Heh, this should be an interesting conversation.
Buffy is such a child.
Happy to read that Angel and Cordy have a happy life with a bunch of kids. Very sweet.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 12:24 pm Title: CH 11
To aspikefan: Well, it was the choice he made, and the choice she made. Not everyone makes the best choices all of the time, but that's life. Its what makes people human. They'd been seperated for five years, they weren't living together or even in the same country...their marriage was not exactly together. Legally, yes, in other ways - No.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 12:15 pm Title: CH 1
Again nice chapter. To those below yes the both mad poor choices. However Buffy is married took vows and was havning affair with another man for 5 years. Will William/Spike was still faithful. Sorry I can't say they even. Would be different if he did the same, but marriage vows suppose to mean a lot. Even with all her guilt she still carried on. On top of that she practically playing with Lindsey (even if he knew what he was getting into). So really taking all those things in consideration you have to say she just making one mess after another. Keep up the good work tho ... need more chapter quicker we want spuffy to make feel better :)

Date: 01/27/2006 - 12:03 pm Title: CH 11
I don't hate Buffy at all. I feel bad for her and I do feel bad for William. They made poor choices, it happens. I do want them to get better and heal and find a way back to each other, but I don't think the blame can be put on any ONE person. That's just not fair.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:46 am Title: CH 11
I just read everything you've got so far and I love the story...can't wait to read more!!

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:44 am Title: CH 11
*chuckling* These reviews are cracking me up! Beasleysmom, You know you are doing something right when you get such passionate opinions on a story! ; D
Personally, so far I still fall somewhere in the middle with my opinion..I DO see that Buffy did make a mistake, but I understand why she did. ( does that make sense?)
When reading a story like this I try to keep an open mind, and remind myself that things could change at any moment. After all when reading any story, I am really just visiting the mind of the writer. Heck at any moment if you decided..you could pull out some secret love child..and all bets are off! : D lol
*just an example!*
Keep up the great work!!

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:27 am Title: CH 11
I'm a little lost here... why is everyone surprised?
They've been seperated for years and Buffy has been shacked up with Lindsay for five of them... and from the way she and Lindsay were acting prior to Spike showing up, they were very happy.
If she were in any way still in love with Spike she wouldn't have been in a long term relationship surely? What sort of love is that?
Nope. I seriously dislike this Buffy, and I think Spike deserves far better...

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:27 am Title: CH 11
Wonderful as always, hon! You're really a great writer! :) I'm sooo addicted to the story. And I so love that Angel and Cordelia are married in it, by the way ;)
Keep up the great work!
*Greetz&Hugs*
Yours Sabrina :)

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:24 am Title: CH 11
I was wondering when Angel was going to appear.....gotta say I about peed my pants with their banter......I almost wanted to yell "Both of you go to your rooms."
What a cliffy you left us with....my dear......another great chapter......but bad at leaving me biting my nails, I don't have much to nibble on......so update soon......
I hope Lindsey wakes up soon and flies away, crawls away......Buffy needs a man not a love sick moo cow. with separation anxiety....LOL

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:11 am Title: CH 11
So Buffy remembered her promise.. but only the promise she made when marrying Spike. Spike remembered another promise (giving earlier) too. Seems as if Buffy is on a turning point now. I just hope she chooses the right direction and doesn't break William's heart all over again.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 11:03 am Title: CH 11
Oh, I wish these two would just kiss and make up.
Sigh, I'm such a romantic at heart.
That was sweet and sad and heartbreaking.
spuf

Date: 01/27/2006 - 07:22 am Title: CH 10
Oh, poor Will! I want him to find a really good woman that will treasure him like he should be. Even if Buffy wanted him again, how could he ever trust her now? Thee are better things out there for him if he can manage to move on now.

Date: 01/27/2006 - 02:13 am Title: CH 10
ROTFLMAO, at myself......bad me not remembering correctly the how and when she told Lindsey she was married.....bad me.....but then if makes me think Lindsey even more of a love blind calf who needs to find a new life.......and as for vows.....even if I'm not and never have been married still think vows of marriage a serious thing.....and feel that Buffy has betrayed herself, Wiliam, her vows, and Lindsey buy shirking them. The vows are more then just a piece of paper, or just words but your word and promise. If you want to live the singe life, then do it, don't use the marrige to hide......or hold on to something. Both Buffy and William are guilty of trying to hold on to something that no longer existed except on paper. But I think for different reasons. And I will believe Wiliam innocent until he s proven not to be in keeping his vows...because I truly do try and believe in people until it is proven they are guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.......if the roles were reversed, I'd be on Buffy's side......but they are not. But again, I think it was a great chapter.....now let's see what our estranged couple do..........and as always, it's been a pleasure, : )

Date: 01/26/2006 - 11:20 pm Title: CH 10
I hope Buffy takes a stroll down meemory lane and sees what she has done to him. Maybe It will knock her for a loop

Date: 01/26/2006 - 10:21 pm Title: CH 10
Hey, Kimber. You know, I'm confused by your last post. It's not meshing up with what I'm reading. I reread chapter 3 (when we first read about Buffy and Lindsey). I don't see where she ever concealed that she was married from Lindsey. She didn't tell him when they met because it was none of his business and she kept refusing his advances even after he had been working as her manager for a year. So Lindsey knew of her marriage from early on in the dating part of their relationship.
Tally his dally...heh. See, you are coming at it from the opposite way I am. You're kinda all, "he's innocent until prove guilty." While I'm not looking to say guilty until proven innocent, I am saying don't throw stones at Buffy for being human. It's not like she's cheating on William while they were REALLY together. (I know that sounds bad, but hear me out). They walked away from each other. They weren't living together (or even in the same country) and for all she knew, Spike no longer loved her. The last thing he did say before he left was that he no longer cared. It doesn't get much clearer than that.
As for no respect for Buffy, I really think this isn't one of those black and white "OMG I can't believe she's cheating on her husband, what a bitch" situations. This is a very atypical affair. Also one has to look at his or her definition of marraige. If it is simply a piece of paper, yeah, sure...she's a total bitch and life's black and white. However, if marriage is something more, something spiritual (to those who are spiritually inclined) or a striving for love and selflessnss, then I think their marriage dissolved years ago. I'm not one to look at things in the black an white. Grey is more my shade, and I always try (and I emphasize try because I am only human) to save the role of judge for those who have no fault. There is no telling what a man or woman would do when faced with just the right set of circumstances. They may do something they never thought they would possibly do. Like have an affair, leave their spouse, have an abortion, or even in the extreme, kill. And each person would react differently to any given set of circumstances. This is why I side with Buffy (and Will, too for that matter. I'm just teetering over onto Buffy's side because she seems to be the one in most need of supporters. Poor Buffy. So few fanfic readers are liking her here.)
I myself am in a relationship of 10 years and will (probably) never marry. The vows mean nothing to me. They are only words. It is the actions that matter to me. The love, the respect. My man's with me. We both had aspirations that we both had to sacrifice some of in order to raise our daughter. He didn't just expect me not to pursue my dreams. He had to give up a part of his so I could achieve a part of mine. I guess this story is a bit personal and that's why I'm so passionate about Buffy's plight. Now, if only the author doesn't make me eat crow later. :)
And I totally agree with you, Kimber. Posting here is FUN! I love getting responses to my posts (as long as I haven't gone too far and pissed anyone off...that usually isn't my intention. ;) I only hope that this type of "review" doesn't annoy the authors. I can't imagine why that would, though. To have written something that sparks so much passion and debate is very flattering, IMO. Great job hitting home with this one, beasleysmom!

Date: 01/26/2006 - 07:28 pm Title: CH 10
Raspy....we all have the right to our opinions....it's what makes posting here fun actually.......as for Buffy she had a man she had been living with 3 years to marry her 2 years ago.....until then she'd never even told Lindsey she was married.....and has remained married for 2 years....I have no respect for a woman that would think of her vows with such disrespect.....she should have divorced him once she started a serious fling with Lindsey before he asked her to marry him.......and I got the impression from the last chapter William had honored his vows.....that he'd not had anyone since Buffy........so unless the author gives me more specifics.....he didn't tally his dally. As for lawyer.....she's not said he's a divorce lawyer......in a firm not all of them practice the same type of law....it could be he's going back home and have one of the others that works the divorce end of things, while he could very well be contracts/business, fill out the papers and serve her with them... Would not be ethicial or moral for him to handle his own case.......he could easily set himself up to do something that could be him disbarred.......That's why ever the best divorce attorney's still hire their own......LOL. We do still have the legit press and entertainment media not to make a big thing of this....where they are all going the wrong way in protecting Kennedy......she's going to be hurt all around......

Date: 01/26/2006 - 07:17 pm Title: CH 10
Oh, Spike thinks that Buffy has replaced him when we know that is not the case at all. Was she supposed to wait for Will to contact her after 8 years? No, I suppose she should have filed for divorce instead. But why when that obviously isn't what she or Spike wanted? Anyway, enough harping on that. The fact of this chapter is that Spike is in pain and that does upset me. His emotions are just as valid as Buffy's are. I hope that resolution can happen soon (but that would mean the end of the story, right? So don't resolve too soon .) I really hope that everyone stays out of it. Giles has respected Spike (or been cut off by Spike) enough to not really become involved. He is just supporting. Unless Buffy does something REALLY horrible and hateful (which I don't feel her character is either horrible or hateful), I'm hoping Joyce keeps her nose to herself.
If I were in Buffy's position at this point, I'd like to think I'd take responsibility for using Lindsey and break the relationship off. I'm not sure if I would just sign the papers for William or confront him before hand and ask him if that is what he really wants If he says yes (even out of hurt)...oh, who am I kidding. I'd be STUBBORN AS HELL and keep pestering him until he REALLY convinced me he wanted the divorce. :) At any rate, much healing needs to be done for both. Forgiveness is the key here, and they both need it from themselves and each other. This isn't a one sided issue. Two, two people are involved, ha, ha, ha, haaaa!

Date: 01/26/2006 - 06:52 pm Title: CH 9
I'm feeling what you guys have to say about this and I do respect your valid views. Right now, though, I'm putting myself in Buffy's position and can truly understand why she is responding the way she is. Just because her reactions (to possible child for instance) aren't what others would do or agree with, doesn't make her wrong (cause come on, how wrong can emotions be? We can't help how something makes us feel. Only how we respond to those emotions. Like being selfish, or instance. But I don't see Buffy as being selfish here. She didn't throw a hissy, and I hope she doesn't cause that would piss me off. She was just saddened. I don't see the selfishness in simply being sad. )
I don't remember Spike giving Buffy and ultimatum. If he did, it wasn't clear to me. I would figure that Spike giving an ultimatum would serve to have more people against him in this story. The only reason I am pissed at him is because he dismissed Buffy's dreams as frivilous and it's never been indicated to me that being a divorce lawyer at his Stepfather's firm (for he could do this anywhere...he just wanted a quick way in, IMO) was Spike's dream. And even if it was, Spike never argued this fact with Buffy, only the fact that he wanted to provide for his wife. I still stand firm that he could have done that in the States with his wife.
As for the affair, we really still don't know if Spike hasn't gotten his rocks off with someone else. When he said there was no one in his life, he could have meant no one that he has wanted to keep. Yes, Buffy is having an affair. Usually, that is frowned upon, however, in this situation I would say that it is understandable (to me at least) that she is seeking some form of companionship with another since Spike did choose to ignore her ultimatum and leave. She waited for three years and Spike's a no show, no hear. Why not a divorce? Ask Spike the same question. I can only assume at this point that Buffy hoped against all hope that Spike would return for her. And no, this affair is not fair to Lindsey especially considering Buffy KNOWS how he feels about her. (Lindsey is guilty for staying with her and is a dolt for doin so).
I'm keeping my fingers crossed as I go to read the next chapter that Buffy won't do something to piss me off.
Cheers! :)

Date: 01/26/2006 - 05:25 pm Title: CH 10
awww, poor Will. Let's hope someone nice finds him.
:(

Date: 01/26/2006 - 04:13 pm Title: CH 10
What a sweet first time!

Date: 01/26/2006 - 03:20 pm Title: CH 10
Oh nice flashback...poor Spike...how on earth are you going to bring them back together, cant wait to find out...nice and quick updates...well get to it, ha ha :)