

Date: 07/14/2006 - 02:15 am Title: Chapter Forty-Two
drama? with spuffy stories? no way! get outta here. anyway, i just wanted to say 'boo hoo' for buffy. spike's right. it's always about her. yeah, she's had a tough life, but does she think that she' s the only one? i should hope not. she never stops to think about it from his point of view. i mean, can we say double standard. oh, and yay for spike for calling her on her shit. you go guy.

Date: 07/14/2006 - 12:57 am Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Oooooh, this is so not going well. Spike's right but going about it in the wrong way - at least to me, and Buffy could have told him what she originally planned before he didn't come home that first night. I just got a bad feeling there's more drinking ahead, and seriously worried for Buffy and if she makes a good decision about what just happened. Please post soon, the cliffies are making me sit on the edge of my seat.

Date: 07/14/2006 - 12:10 am Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Spike, Buffy just did to you what you did to her. Can't handle something? Avoid and abandon your loved one. I think Buffy handled Spikes abandonment (pushing her away with false accusations, drinking, staying out all night) much better than Spike handled Buffy's. Buffy wouldn't have had to get away if Spike wasn't treating her so badly. Buffy could have handled it better, but for all she knew Spike wasn't coming home for the weekend because he would prefer to get drunk instead. Cant really blame her.

Date: 07/14/2006 - 12:02 am Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Ouch...that sure didn't go well. It seems nothing is the same at the moment. I'm really curious to see how this will turn out. Will they continue to fight, make up, or finally call it quits? At this point, I have no clue. I can't wait to see what else you have planned for my favorite couple. Update soon please!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 10:46 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Well, I guess Spike kinda has a point, but honestly, I'd mostly blame him this time too (if it were me). Lol. Great chapter! Can't wait for more!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 10:09 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Spike's right..As wrong as he was in the beginning..and as much as he hurt her by not coming home that night..Buffy did not handle it like she should.. There was nothing wrong with going to her Mom's house..but she should have resolved their argument before she took off. Also..turning off her phone was NOT a good move. Buffy is being "avoido girl"... Not sure about the Spike's idea that he is always automatically the bad guy..but I am crossing my fingers that they can pull out of this! Great update ; )

Date: 07/13/2006 - 09:38 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
loved it. never realized how much sesne spike made about it always being about buffy until he actually said the words. he's totally right. okay, ready for the next update. bring on more of the angst. i can take it! lol. post soon.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 09:32 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Yeah, fights aren't resolved until all the feelings are hashed out. You can't just say "okay" and be "okay".
And he's right about her avoidance. She could have text messaged him back, if she didn't feel she could talk.
The hurt comes from how your actions are perceived, no matter what your intention or thought was.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 09:18 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
well....not too sure what the drama was but.... anyways :)
i'm proud of Spike, he stood up for himself and told her how he really felt! looking forward to the aftermath of the 'make up.'

Date: 07/13/2006 - 08:42 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Hmmm... well at least some of the things are coming out in the open though, and they can try working on them! Great chapter!! Loved it!
-Ashley-

Date: 07/13/2006 - 08:26 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
interesting i like the way you going with this fic. i can't wait fo the next chapter

Date: 07/13/2006 - 08:02 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Can't believe how Spike is acting! Sure there are unresolved issues to work out but he's basically blaming her for hurting him on purpose! Great chapter!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 07:03 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
I like that there's still tension, because Buffy is just as screwed up as Spike and needs to see that it's not all take take take.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:56 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Love the story, hate that it's breaking my heart but I still love it. It's sucked me in and that's what a good read is supposed to do. Please update soon. And I never review so that just tells you how much I love it!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:53 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Man does Spike have issues.... I do agree with him that Buffy should have done more than leave a note. A phone call would have sufficed. But look what he went an did! He starts and argument and leaves the house before the damn thing can be resolved. I HATE it when people do that. And he didn't finish his rant, "It's always about you, Buffy, it's never...". WTF? Does he have a point? This reminds me way too much of some of my fights with my boyfriend. Relationships are so bleeding difficult.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:31 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Great chapter! Looking forward to the next one!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:24 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Yay! A complex relationship!! Loved the chapter. Especially how you didn't let it end with hugs and puppies. They've got issues - and they aren't getting out of working thru them that easy. :-)

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:10 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
I like that they didn't just kiss and make-up, it makes them more real characters if their problems have dimensions. I'm with spike, buffy just ran away from their fight and that was wrong and she knew it. He hurt her and she hurt him right back. looking forward to the next chapter!
Thanks!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:04 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
So glad to see your update and still loving this story. Sorry you had so much upset but pleased you havent been put off continuing with this story as I really want to see how it all pans out and dont want you to become despondent and not continue until the end. Looking forward to next update
Author's Response: You know, I actually thought about not posting today because I was afraid things would start up again and I didn't want it, but I decided it wouldn't be fair to those people who weren't adding to the negativity. I have so many wonderful, considerate readers, and I can promise you I won't make all of you go punished because of a couple of people being confrontational. Even if the negativity pops up again, I can promise you I'll see this fic through to the end. It's the least I can do for all the people who have been supporting me--some of them for close to two yeas now!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 06:03 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Oh, God. This is bad isn't it? I don't want them to break up, Addie. Spike dragged Buffy to the other side of the country (yes, it was her idea to go, but what other choice did she have?) and if they break up, she'll basically be stranded there. No support system, nothing. Spike has a point, Bussy made a shitty choice on how she left, but she'd been basically abandoned emotionally and physically those couple of days. I probably would have wanted out too. I hope they can work through this. And if they do break-up, can you make a short one (that's the only time I'll ask for a favor of you as a writer !)? I can't wait for more.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 05:56 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
great update. relationships are hard. they're hard work, hard on the emotions and hard to figure out. but worth it in hte long run, if you have someone willing to stick it out. good to know that spuffy prevails. keep up the good work.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 05:43 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
I have no idea what the drama of Tuesday and Wednesday was or is but I wanted to tell you that I LOVE this story. Its not all hearts and flowers but its like real life. Real life is hard work and its confusing and you are doing a great job of capturing that in this fic.
Looking forward to the next chapter!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 05:43 pm Title: Chapter Forty-Two
Heej
I'm sorry you got so many bad responses. I for one really like this fic. I think you're an amazing author and you should just write the story how you want it, it's your story after all. If people don't like it, they shouldn't read it.
I also liked this chapter, it was so real. Things aren't automatically good after a fight when someone says ; we're okay. It takes time.
Anyway, keep up the good work. Don't let people get you down.

Date: 07/13/2006 - 03:39 am Title: Chapter Forty-One
I appreciate the way you have Oz giving sage advice to Spike. At least with Spike willing to communicate, they can work through a lot of their stuff. I also like how Joyce is reaching out to Buffy. With the pressure off in a couple of areas, I have faith that despite the angst, they'll conquer their "stuff" together. And Spike, my boy-- don't you know it's never a good sign when you "need" a drink. Only drink when you "want" a drink, but don't need it! I think everyone will be jumping back on the "hooray" band-wagon. You did a nice job of keeping the tone a little lighter, while not magically resolving all of the foils to their relationship. Now if Spike can gather his courage and tell Buffy about how his insecurities are fueling his behavior-- Good work. I'm glad you came back so strong in this chapter-- Don't let any feedback get you down. I understand your need to defend your "baby," but trust me, the work speaks for itself. No defense needed!

Date: 07/13/2006 - 01:13 am Title: Chapter Forty-One
Delurking...
Wonderful chapter !! Full of angst ! I LOVE LOVE LOVE angst !
Spike is drinking again ? neat !
Maybe he's going to cheat on Buffy too?
This is REAL LIFE stuff ! Depressing and heart-breaking !
Exactly what I'm looking for !