I always hated that Spike took all the hate from the scoobies for what he did to Buffy especially from Dawn. But they were never told just how bad Buffy treated Spike. How much she used and abused him. Just Tara was told. But not the rest of the scoobies. Like they don't already think the worst from Spike. Even if Spike took care of Dawn the summer Buffy was dead and went out to patrol. Yes, the scoobies helped patrol as well but I can almost bet Spike did most of the work. He probably took over Buffy's duties. I'm not saying what Spike did wasn't terrible. But I feel that Buffy hurt Spike way more more than Spike hurt Buffy. I have heard many people excuse Buffy's actions because she was pulled out of heaven to having all this responsibilities on her. I did feel bad for Buffy in that season. She did have a lot on her shoulders. But if you can just excuse Buffy on what she did so easily because she was feeling depressed. Then right can't they excuse Spike for what he did. Someone who doesn't have a soul and was trying to do good before. Isn't like he actually raped Buffy either. Who is to say that he wouldn't stop before he did. So when it comes to Spike and Buffy' relationship in season 6. While I do feel sympathy for Buffy that doesn't excuse her for abusing someone. I honestly think if it was a man who was abusing a woman like that. It would be more of a big thing. JMO
But interesting story so far.