Hello Again,

After discussing matters with my husband, he has convinced me to keep the Spuffy Realm up.

He knows this was my very first website and my most beloved one. Also, as he's pointed out, I've hardly had to change the site as it's pretty self-contained. And damn it, we've been online in this iteration for nearly 22 years! Also, I don't want to disappoint anyone who loves this site as much as I do.

So, the Spuffy Realm will stay up, thanks to the support of my spouse. However, I will not be making any updates to it anytime soon (though I know it probably needs it). I am just not in the mood/mindset to do it. I am grieving an incredibly inconceivable loss, which has led me into despair and depression. I am not so low that I can't see the light at the end of this dark tunnel I am in right now. I see it, but I'm just tired, and I don't want to think. I just want to lie in the darkness for a while.

Also, if you email me or have emailed me and I don't reply, please don't take it personally. It is truly not you and totally me. I hope you will give me grace.

Kindly,

Pari